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Dating/Relationships

04/26/2013

Correct Protocol After The First Date

What is the correct dating protocol after your first date? With the wave of super cool technology, things are getting more and more interesting. We have so many options when it comes to how to communicate. How do we make the right choice? Do you text your date a thank you? Tweet it, email it or send an Instagram? Maybe you go out on a limb and actually pick up the phone to show your appreciation. Do people still do this? I hope so.

If you know me, and hopefully you do by now, you know that I am a big fan of courtship. After the initial meeting, I tell my clients that it is fine to send a text or email to thank him for the date, but that a voicemail is even better. People appreciate being acknowledged and it shows that you have character, which is important when someone is truly looking for their mate.

That said, if you are the female in the relationship it is important to stop there. Give the male the time and space to reach out to you again. Allow him to ask you out for the second date. The rule of thumb is to wait a week. If he doesn’t call, the bottom line is he isn’t interested. Don’t sweat it! There are plenty of fish in the sea, and it’s best to know early on so you can keep swimming!

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